Nimbuzz-Friendship-Relationship

Hello friends! I am back again. For good or bad just keep your fingers crossed :-D. Today I am going to write about online friendship relationship. Well, I myself was a late starter to the online world or to say the virtual world. Is online world good or bad? Well, I am not writing for it or against it. What I would like to say is see for yourself.

Everyone I meet says; it is a virtual world or it's not worth. But on January 1 I, 2011, I downloaded Nimbuzz application without knowing what it is. I searched for chat room lists and I typed Asian. Then out of all the given options I entered “American~European~Asian~World~Friendship” room. Well, being a fresher chatter, I just used to chat privately to the users. I got kicked a lot in rooms. I didn’t understand the meaning of being kicked. Later, I came to know it means you are not welcome. I don’t know why on that day no matter what I was stuck in that room. I saw many people there. Talha, Hari , Trials-Errors, Bella, Ishu- the music Id symbol, Zinnia and many more. Since that day onwards till today, I am not able to forget then or never will. They have been just like a family to me. Each has a different look for life. They are all much more experienced in the virtual world. I got a lot of advices that it’s a fake world. Well, for me I have a different opinion. Fake can be found in real world and virtual world is not a correct term to use for online friendship. What matter most is to be truthful to yourself and none else. All of us here are for some reason. Some for fun, some for friendship and few like me, who is invisible in the social world .One reason, might over shadow the others but we all here for the same common cause - to stay connected. People like me who travel once in every 4yrs to another places, it is hard to maintain a constant friendship because of physical constraint. Most of us are too busy giving time for each others.

Online friendship is a common forum where no matter what no matter where you are you just have to come online to meet your friends. Be closed to your loved ones. Once a learned person said “we all have a human urge to fill the blank spaces” so be it in cross word or in real life we try to fill in the blanks. Sometime with the correct alphabets sometime with wrong ones. But we still try to fill in and we still want ourselves to be surrounded by someone who is a lot like us, who are just as crazy like us. Let it be a single person or the whole bunch it doesn’t matter. Online relationship can be true believing me all you need is a little love, little care, a little respect and whole truth. No one is perfect; I am not perfect so we should not seek for perfection. We just have to accept their uniqueness as they accept yours. Nimbuzz has been just like a home to me I found many friends and each with their uniqueness amaze me and make me think that there are 6 billion humans in this world, 6 billion dreams, 6 billion human feelings that I never knew. Maybe in this life time. I may not know about all of them but at least I tried to know the ones I can. At least I know about Philippines like never before at least I know that in Indonesia chilies are costly .at least I know that in kerela we have a maradona,at least I know in Cambodia there is the world’s best baker, at least I know in Tamil Nadu there is a hacker, at least I know that in Vellore there are two cool dudes, at least I know in Trichy there is a future mechanical genius, at least I know that in Punjab there is a doctor, whom might someday treat millions in malaria, there is an author in Gujarat, there is someone who thinks ~life~is~beautiful and in Pakistan there is someone who loves me and the most important is I know that they know me. Life is not all about taking sometimes, just sit back open your mobile enter nimbuzz and chat in American~European~Asian~World~friendship room and find true friends.

"A FRIEND IS SOMEONE WHO ACCEPTS YOUR PAST, BELIEVE IN YOUR FUTURE AND ACCEPTS THE WAY YOU ARE TODAY……… A FRIEND IS SOMEONE WITH WHOM YOU CAN DARE TO BE YOUR SELF".